Whatisis! Great to hear from you again. Thanks so much for the encouragement. Although I had multiple backslides that day with different things, the argument we had at the end of the night was definitely the worst backslide yet and even the worst argument that I think we've ever had since we've even known each other. It was NOT a pretty sight... At any rate, thank you for telling me about your experience that these backslides/meltdowns have little influence on the outcome. That helps. H DID say yesterday when I apologized that we are still going to be okay. But I know we are supposed to believe none of what they say... At least he didn't tell me he was done with us. Thanks again for posting to my thread again.