Yeah, I know, I have said that since Day 1 of bomb. I wish I had been reading marriage how-to books from D1 of my marriage and I wouldn't be here. I understand that what has happened in my M happens in others, not that that makes me feel any better about the waste time issue, but I just wish H realized it as well !!
I can't wait to get to the point where I feel confident in H's feelings and conviction in our M as well as mine. I am truly very happy just loving H the way I have been and learning how nice it is to have a happy M and not just living day to day, dealing w/ stress, etc. I just hope it all works out for us and one day I KNOW FOR A FACT that he is "in love" with me again completely!! That's what I want.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
