I would be, too afraid to bring anything up if things are going well, and if the affair seems to be ended, that would be a negative for him. As you saying in a previos post about how she feels about him, if she still seems to be pursuing him, you better believe she still wants him.
Actions always speak louder than words. And as for him sending her flowers cause' she's just a friend... BS... the H would let you know and say let's send so and so some flowers because blah blah blah, you know. It wouldn't be a big secret.
Hang in there I know it is getting harder for you. take care. Will check back later. Cissy
