Quote: --------------------------------------------------------- I find myself attracted to other men and that worries me too. I am not one to have an affair.....so why I am feeling attraction towards other men rather than my husband? ---------------------------------------------------------
It is normal to find other people attractive, but attraction at the expense of your spouse is not good. The real question becomes one of "what are you going to do about it?"
Let me throw something interesting at you. There is an observable phenomenon where the undesirable spouse ends up being the spouse that seeks a relationship outside the marriage. One might think that the dissatisfied spouse is always the one that wanders. In real life, the spouse that is feeling undesired is often the first out.
My question to you is this. How much time are you spending with other men outside your marriage? At the gym? Running?
Is your husband in good shape physically. Is this important to you?
What is it about your husband that causes you too distance yourself from him?
What is it about your interaction with others that causes you to distance yourself from your husband?
What makes you believe that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence - be honest?
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
