No, I agree, I don't want to be walking on egg shells for the rest of my life, however, like I said, we have been piecing for such a short period of time I don't necessarily know if H is where he needs to be yet for us to talk about R. The problem is that our sitch is different in that he's leaving, you see? But, at the same time, I don't want to rush things just b/c he is leaving and mess up my DB'ing and piecing efforts before things have settled. (truly do appreciate you guys!!!!)


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10