So what is his relationship with the OW now? Are they still seeing each other?

If so, then I think you have a HUGE problem on your hands

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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