Cadesmom34
I admit I was being very selfish in our M. I guess I tended to think that I should take care of the kids and H should take care of me.

Lots of wives think like that. Lots of H feel they are near last on the to do list. Take it from a person that has been married almost 39 years.

I just talked to him @ work & he didn't say ILY when we got off b/c she was probably right there.
That is "Stinking thinking" assumption CM34. You are creating problems for the R when you assume like that. It could also have been, a male co-worker was standing next to him, or maybe his mind was on something else that had his stressed a little.

Lou