WAW/MLC/QLC???

[GK99]

I've been thinking of posting on here for a while - not sure if it is the right place but there seems to be some similarities between my situation and others in this forum. The details of my sitch are found here:
My Story

I've read a lot of posts about the difference between WAS and MLC. The main difference seems to be that a true WAS will generally push for divorce rather quickly whereas MLC will drag their feet. Are there any other differences that you've found? My W has surrounded herself with a new group of friends (I don't know any of them). Not sure if there is OM yet, but I would guess there is (at least emotionally). She has not come by our house since early January and therefore has not seen our cats since then. This is a really big deal because our cats meant so much to her. She has been going "tanning", although a year ago she would make fun of people for doing that. She also told me she wanted a nose piercing last fall, although hasn't actually got one yet. Does this sound like MLC, or as someone else mentioned, QLC?