OK...so how come H says he wants to come home but he STILL drives 2 hours to stay at OW house every night after I get home from work and then in the early morning he gets up and drives 2hrs back to look after our S...??? And he stays at our home when sleeping off his night-shift.

Last night he left our home at 6pm when I got back from work, drove 2 hours to OW house (so, say 8pm he got there) but then ended up going to a movie on his own which must have started around 9pm because he called me at 11pm when it finished. He just wanted to see how me and S were. I guess OW was on night shift. So why was he doing all that driving to OW when she wasn't even there? He admits all the driving is getting to him.

I don't understand.......(unless he wanted the night to himself..????)

Says he needs to sort his head out but how can he sort his head out when he is driving back to OW to spend the night?

How long do I need to put up with this?

Me 36 ring on
H 41 ring off
S2
Together since 1992
Married: 2000
Bomb Aug 06
H moved out Oct 06 (and straight in with OW)