The other day my H told me ahead of time (for the first time) that he was not coming home the next day but will be back the following night after work. This was after I had told him he did not need to explain (b/c I no longer ask) where he is or what he is doing). Here latley w/out my asking he will explain himself for being late or whatever so the other day when he was late from work and he had told his sister to come over to fix his laptop, but he was still not home, I had to call him for somereason. He returned my call and was surprised his sister was at our place already. As he expalins where he was at I (nicely and calmly) said that he need not expalin b/c we both know that I already know about the OW. I also told him that many months a ago I had asked the lord to take away any and all my sexual desires that I have for him. Ofcoarse, he did not beleive this, but whatever I expalined the reasons why I don't need or want to have sex w/ him and the other reason is b/c I do not have a death wish by catching any diseases. When he arrived home he was frusturated I suppose b/c he thought I did not beleive he was not w/ OW, so he pulled his shorts down and shoved his you-know-what in my face! and said here smell I have not done anything!!I probably should have walked away, but instead (clamly) I said well you had plenty of time to wash up. This was when he told me he did not do it today ,but will tomorrow when he spends the night over there. Last week it was also a TUesday when he did not spend the night at home, so I said oh ok I guess Tuesdays is the night when she must be kidless.
Nevertheless......to my surprise the next morning, Tuesday morning he took (only that my eye could see) was a pair of work pants as he was leaving and reminded me that he was not coming home after work. I just said ok see you later. BUT then he leaned over and kissed my forehead as he said goodbye..hmm..guilt???? I can't remembber the last time he did that!!!
Can someone tell me if guilt is connectgted in any way to their feelings about us, I mean does it mean they still care????????????????????????????????
