Thanks! You are right I already know enough details. I know where they are living and even found a photo of her online. You are right it really is only for my curiousty and will do nothing but hurt me more so I will leave it alone.
Interesting text message conversation with my H last nite. After he learned of my Dad's accident, he sent me a text asking how he was doing. Here is how the conversation(text message) went.
H: How's your Dad? M: Alive Then I realized how rude that was on my part, So I sent. M: Sorry been a very bad long day. Dad is okay. H: Is your bad day all due to your Dad or is there more going on M: Mainly Dad and juggling my business, the dogs and the sick dog's vet appt. H: Anything I can do for you? M: You know H after standing at my Dad's bedside and him asking if you knew about the amputaton and I said yeah Dad I sent him a text and a tear rolls down his face, I really just can't answer that question. H: If I was supposed to be there I am sorry I was out of town til now. I don't know what your parents know about our situation and wouldn't think I would be welcome anyway. M: They know what I know. That you left and haven't told me what's happening and that all I ask is that they pray for you. So they pray. You are always welcome home. That's what family is all about.
That was the end of the conversation. So, now I lay low and not say anything else. Right guys? Was I wrong to let him know he is welcome home? How could I have handled this better DB?
