His D was overseas and his OW began e-mailing her during her and my H affair. I believe trying to get her foot in the door with his kids. The OW and D are closer in age than the OW and husband. D is in early 20s and OW early 30s. H is early 50s. Anyway, D & OW became pals and then it progressed. My H found out about all of this when the A was exposed. This has put a tremendous strain on his relationship with his D. D has become homosexual and now he and his D don't hardly speak with one another. What a tangled web we weave...... My involvement in this is nill, but it strips to the very core of my favorite saying "you are who you hang out with". It is very hard to deal with on an intellectual level. giving my H the benefit of the doubt, he knew nothing about what was going on, but he's the one that got us all tangled up in this.
