As far as I know Yes her girlfriends H is cheating and leaving without caring much about his family. I do know that her girlfriend has talked to my W and is giving her my perspective - which I think is good. But my W is hell bent on not letting anyone influence her, she needs to do things on her own rightnow. I also know that my MIL, SIL, and FIL have tried to talk some sense into her, but their efforts to this point have been fruitless. I love my W to death but I cannot change her heart and neither can anybody else. I just hope that fog will lift and she starts to see all the positives in us.
My W is supposed to meet with one of the three people from church today. When , where, and for how long I do not know. I did learn that the lady she is going to be talking to was at one point in her life in my shoes, so she knows my pain and can only tell me to bring it to the Lord. I am praying that something profound occurs in todays meeting, but I am keeping my expectations low.
