I KNOW I need to refocus on those areas...NEEDING h (but not neediness), TRUSTING him, stepping back, etc. I need M&V playing in my head in an endless loop.
Sage
I hear ya! It's like once the urgency of piecing is behind us, we still have to work hard at just maintaining good habits. How about some goals? Maybe target asking H to help with one teeny new thing per week? By the end of the year, you could have him running the whole shooting match
Long weekends tend to magnify the good and the bad too, anyway.