Why did you become this way? I see this in my wife, I see this in other women. Once children arrive, you become completely different people. Heck I see this at work, women without children actually talk about their husbands and boyfriends, but once they have children, they change. They spend ALL of their time talking about children. Their husbands COMPLETELY disappear from their conversations. Why do women become this way? And why do they not understand the damage they are doing to their relationships?