Brutal but honest opinion. I hope you are wrong, I know it does look like she may be having a SR with OM, but I just have to think otherwise, for my sanity.
I just can't see her doing anything, she is so shy and self conscious of her body (after child birth, stretch marks etc). She looks wonderful, but this guy is built like Jean Claude Van Dam and could have any female he wanted. The fact that he doesn't and did not have a girlfriend when she started in October 06 (kickboxing), and my W's cousin has been out on group outings with OM and the Kickboxing/Rockclimbing crowd, she says that he is not interested, and she has never seen him chat up chicks etc. i'm hoping he is gay and all these women are EA's.
Also on occasion when she has met up with him or attended a friends house with him there, she has not made herself up like she did when we were dating????? Or when she goes out clubbing.
Who knows..............
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
and all these women are EA's.
