Thanks guys. My Dad is doing okay, he is home and on good drugs! His last comment before surgery was "hey, don't buy me gloves for Christmas this year". He will be fine : )
As for the H and the OW. He has NO clue that I know about her and I can guarantee he will deny it if confronted. I am choosing to not confront him but I will speak with an attorney and see if I should get the proof to hold onto just in case this gets ugly.
My hubby occasionally sends me picture messages on my cell phone of random things like my favorite NASCAR driver was here locally a week or so ago and he sent me a video of him with a note that said "your hero is in town today." So I know he thinks of me but come on how crazy can you be. Don't worry guys I just replied, "that's cool". Little does he know I haven't turned the TV on since he left and couldn't tell you anything about what the NASCAR world is doing. Having the TV on makes me cringe because it's like he is home...because the TV was always on when he was home.
Okay, she's babbling again can you tell I REALLY miss someone to share each day with. Oh well, will go talk to the dogs some more at least they know how to love unconditionally back!
