Damn, if I knew a flood in the basement was going to bring close to me I would stuck a garden hose down there years ago
hahahaha, I know you are only joking :-)
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I went over right away and she was in tears. The damage was extensive. She was worried about how she was going to pay for the repairs. Look like about 2-3K just to clean up the mess. I told her not worry, I would help her financially, she could pay me back whenever.
Hard Nosed Version :Dude, you can't be there to rescue them whenever they get into trouble. It's unhealthy, breeds dependency and gives them permission to put their happiness into your hands. The next time you don't pick up on their telepathic messages to do something for them and you don't read their mind, guess what? it breed silent resentment that they bank, accumulate interest on and one day out of the blue, it turns into a bomb. Let them take care of themselves. Isn't that what they wanted when they D'd you?
Soft Nosed Version : Dude, you shown tremendous loves and compassion. I'm sure it is apparent to her that the grass aint greener on the other side. And that a strong, attractive and loving man that stands by her through thick and thin, is just what she unquestionably wants in her life.
God Bless
Suit
"It's better to have no spouse than have a bad spouse"
