I'm here to support you in whatever it is that decide to do. I'm happy to share advice and it's up to you what you do with at.
I appreciate the candid advice and the ordeal you went through.
Well an unexpected thing happened last night that seems to have brought the exW a lot closer to me.
We had a wicked Nor'Easter come through the east coast over the weekend. She calls me last night and she has 3" of water in her finished basement. Now she bought me out of our maritial home and that basement never had a drop of water in it. Her gutters have not been cleaned out in 2 years, so the result was the water had not where to go but come up the foundation. Home Owners Ins. does not cover this.
I went over right away and she was in tears. The damage was extensive. She was worried about how she was going to pay for the repairs. Look like about 2-3K just to clean up the mess. I told her not worry, I would help her financially, she could pay me back whenever. I was hanging out with her outside while she smoked what looked like a pack of cigs. She was very stressed, I gave a neck rub and then we hugged for about 10 mins. She was worried about paying for this and how will she be able to our D10 on vacation because this will tap her out. I said maybe we can take a family vacation, she said SURE thats an option! She could not thank me enough for helping her. I told her this needs to be tackled tommorrow before mold sets in. Well of course every company that does this work is swamped with business.
My buddy offered his help and 2 of his workers. We got some sump pumps, thank fully he has a big floor dryer. Lots of work will need to be done in the next couple days. But she should be able to have it cleaned up for around 600-800.
Now I needed to be at the exW this Am while she was working, she said no problem I will give you the code to the garage door. What? She changed the locks when I moved out and refused to allow me in the house. Amazing how they change.
As I was walking out the door last night, she said Hey!. What? Come over here. She the initiated a kiss and hug! First time she had done this.
This afternoon she worked a half day and I was at her table doing work and she came in, said hi and walked over and gave me a kiss! Wow! Another intiation of affection.
I was running around in the afternoon getting supplies when the mail arrived with the card I sent her. She sent me a text "Wow what a beautiful card. thank U! I replied " glad u liked it. It fit you perfectly She replies "Loved it thanks for thinking of me, as usual!
I am glad to see it was a big hit.
My buddy was kidding around with her while I was gone and he told me he said to her. Don't worry about paying us, you just give ddc sexual favors. Now he does not know we ML on Sat. He said she had a big smile on her face and no problem I would loved too!
Damn, if I knew a flood in the basement was going to bring close to me I would stuck a garden hose down there years ago
