Sorry I've not gotten back to you sooner. Sounds like it did you some good to get things out in the open. That's good, and that your H responded openly, and positively is also very good. C's tend to really stir the pot, sometimes that's a good thing, but sometimes some things are better left alone. Anyway it sounds like it was the right thing to do in your case.
Keep up the good work. Any bets on which one of us will get lucky first? I'm putting my money on you! Although it may take awhile for either of us to collect.
Keep up the good work.
Love,
COG
My Story http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...&Number=660444&page=2#Post660444
Yes it was a shot in the dark to go out on a limb like that but I couldn't hold it in any longer. I weighed the pros and cons and said to myself "self, you know him better than anyone, you have to do this, it will be ok" and it was
He went to the C again yesterday so I guess he isn't totally ticked at him - lol
As far as the bets go, I am not a gambling woman (*grin*), but if I was ... I think I would be putting my money on YOU not me. At least you remember how to do it - don't you?
Its been such a long time I really think it is going to take some time, a long long time, before we get to that point (sigh)
I would be happy with some passionate kissing at this point
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
Although it may take awhile for either of us to collect.