Blood is thinker, so it's biased commentary from the MIL. Pay no attention to that. That's not to say that you couldn't improve or have done things different in your marriage to enhance it, but don't let the W or MIL's comments chip away at your self-esteem.
Even if you were the model H it's no guarantee she wouldn't have gone off the deep end. Trust me, as nuts as your story sounds, there's always someone;s story on these boards who could raise your eyebrow. My waw's OM is in prison for 2nd degree murder. I'll trade you!!!
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
