You know it is pretty sad that you want to live next door to your mother! I think it is about time you got your own life. You spend every day over there with her and you spend all your weekends with her. YOu used to make fun of people who hung out with their moms all the time. Haven't you turned into exactly that. Even 57 y/o's son doesn't spend as much time over there as you. And I guess if you want to be her little "go to" man then great, b/c you know living next door to her you will be "expected" to help her out. Kind of funny you were my ONLY family up here and you did more for her in the past year than you EVER did for me in the 9 years I have known you. Maybe you need to start dating her! For all intensive purposes she is your gf. YOu spend a majority of your time with her, she makes you dinner all the time, you spend every weekend with her, if she needs something she calls you, you talk with her daily and you text message each other. All you need to do is start to "ML" to her and you are set with a GREAT relationship. So if you are just using me for sex, then this can stop now and you can just continue to beat off or start hooking up with 57 y/o woman. I am tired of being your "hidden" friend. I am tired of you "vowing" to peopel that you won't contact me. I deserve more than this! You are right XH, I might be too good for you! Lucky for you I want you still, but this offer has an expiration date. I wouldn't think about the offer too long because before you know it the BEST thing that EVER happened to you will be gone. And you will have NO ONE to blame but yourself!
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Okay that is what I would love to tell him... but it all would go in one ear out the other. I have the feeling he told 57 y/o friend that he was talking to me again. Which might explain his "distance" in the past couple of days. Maybe I am wrong, but I just have a feeling. I do hope I am wrong. I do hope he kept our private business private and I do hope that he thinks twice about living next to this woman.
