I have to burn out those thoughts before I can proceed as well as I should. They need to be old and tired, like a T.V. rerun, you know? I
Worked for me Moondog, not an approach I would recommend for many people. It also helped that she had lovers before me...so not as difficult for me as it might be for others. So her notches went up one. : ) I am still better looking : D
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
