you can send him a letter that he can sign, which waives his right to be served but he has to have that waiver notarized. IT'll save him from getting served at work, or any public humiliation and makes you look less petty. As for the legal Sep first, I can see why. If you have assets, I think at some point you do need a L to be involved, same with custody issues. This is not a do it yourself project IF you have kids and or substantial property. Sorry you are at this point. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
