I believe that "where the head goes, the heart will follow." When you are intellectually convinced of something, keep harping on it and eventually you might find yourself feeling better. Also remember that immediate "gratification" via hugs you have to ask for, constant verbal reassurances, etc. actually Decreases the likelihood that you'll ultimately get genuine hugs/reassurance in the future. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016