Our entire family knows about the A and knew when we found out two years ago. H cut off all ties with his family. A few months ago he was complaining that nobody in his family would call him to see how he was doing. Of course, I kept my mouth shut.
I think H's A was more about wild drinking but since he can no longer drink, let's hope reality sinks back in. H's OW is older than he by about 6 months. She will be 52 this year.
Now when you were with other person, did you think about your spouse?
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
