It is a well-known fact that as soon as an affair becomes public, it is doomed.
The whole town knew about it the very next morning. I don't know how, but it got out like an Arizona wild fire. I suspect that the cop who came to my house that morning might have started the flow on that one. She stated to me that she knew it was an issue already - before I even confirmed it! I had my suspicions for sure, but the rest of the town was way ahead of me. Many folks asked why I didn't maul him a long time ago. I would have, but I just didn't have that confirmation.
I have had an affair myself. I told that story here. The sex was incredible. Probably the best I ever had. I could be a different person with her. I felt younger, (She was 10 years younger) more appreciated and more alive than I had in years!
Hence the mental images that I am trying to abate.
The thing about affair sex is this, however. The connection is missing. The love and commitment part is absent. No matter how physically great it was, it was strangely empty.
Surreal, almost.
Argue your limitations and sure enough, they are yours. - Richard Bach
