Thanks. I think I need to just get it done so that either way we have time to deal w/ the convo and what comes of it. I don't want to wait until the night before he leaves or something. Maybe I'm getting worked up over nothing. Like I said, I'm just still so insecure in the R since he dropped the bomb, that I don't ever know what to expect anymore.

Ok, I'll take someone else's line that I read today -- "I'm not going to wait for the other shoe to drop anymore, I'm just going to go barefoot!!" \:\)

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10