hey there, I've followed your sitch for a while and you've given it your all, keep standing strong, it is a shame your H never woke up from his daydreaming. I think you are right by filing first and then tell him, just tell him right after you file, you are being a good person by not being vindictive.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
