Hi, Openguy.

You need to tell your wife exactly what you are going through, and do it ASAP.

Here is the deal. The apathy and disgust are precursors to a completely dead relationship. Once disgust sets in, it can be very difficult for you to change your mind, even if your wife starts doing all the right things.

This is an issue that can't wait. You need to address it now.

Do you think you can discuss this issue and your feelings with your wife without being angry or condescending? She especially needs to know how offensive the "happy act" was to you.

Please let us know your thoughts.

All the best,
-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.