My marriage feels hopeless

[SuperDad]

ERC,
Focus on you and your goals. It is the only way to maintain your happiness (and sanity) and anyway the way you should live your life!!!

Our sitches have much in common (living with our WAWs, 2 kids, etc.), but two big diffs:
1. My W and I are getting along better than we have in years ("just friends").
2. My W has no religious/spiritual base.

In the short view, my sitch seems better. However, in the long view, I think you have a better chance to end up with a successful marriage. Food for thought when you are feeling down!