You always seem to know the right things to say to make me feel better - thank you!
I think you are right, i sometimes feel overwelmed by things and it probably is partly due to post-natal depression and partly because my confidence has taken a bit of a battering.
Also, i feel so insecure because, like you said, they didn't want us and now they do - it's sort of hard to get your head around, isn't it?! My H has said such hurtful things over the past year, how much of it did he really mean? He is going away with work alot at the moment so i haven't seen him very much. I am dying to as him lots of questions about his trips because part of me is still suscpicious that he is seeing someone else. I don't really think he is, i think i'm just being paraniod. I have even suspected that he may be gay because he talks about one man in particular all the time!!!!!!! I have not said anything though because i have to show him that i trust him.
It's our wedding anniversary in a couple of weeks time so i'm hoping he'll want to do something romantic. He still hasn't put his wedding ring back on so i'm not sure whether to mention it now or keep quiet and wait and see if he puts it back on for our anniversary - what would you do?
