Now, how do you know all this? How do you know she is contemplating sending him a video? and the phone sex? Does she still live at home?
She still lives at home and leaves a lot of obvious clues about her behavior. I'm stupid enough to follow up those clues and I always find what I don't want to find. My task is to stop looking and to detach. Whatever I discover just makes me miserable and sick to my stomach. God willing she'll be out of the house by the second week of May then I will not have ability to snoop.
-SH
You got it. Stop looking. She's sick to leave those clues for you to see. But it's her way of punishing you or herself..for her behavior. She might be asking for help, but the only way to help her is let her go. Detach my brutha....before we lose anutha.
Oh BTW.....this is also in the MLC for Dummies handbook.
You will be better when she's out, then you can work on yourself, while she finds herself.
Hang in there pumpkin
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
