Thanks RGM for all your encouraging words. Sometimes I don't feel all that great but I know I have to concentrate on the good times and not allow the bad ones to overshadow them

As for the AD, some cause sexual problems more than others. My H is on them and has been for some time. He was always the LD partner though so I don't imagine that makes much of a difference. More than anything is the sex organ between the ears.

I also had a friend that was on the same AD as what my H is on now and he said it actually made him more sexual because he felt better. I am starting to notice that in my own H, he is starting to get aroused more than he used to. We haven't ML yet and its seems like forever (since October 2005 - and no, I didn't get the date wrong) but I am confident it will happen again one day

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)