I guess I'm stuck at - he said that he went looking to fufill a need I was neglecting (the passion/romance emotional part 'cuz lord knows I was still taking care of the physical part). He's a different kind of man when it comes to all that. He's more into the mental/emotional part of the relationship (I totally believe this and have known that about him forever). He loves the mushy part much more than the physical.
When I found out, it was by finding a card he had written her and planned to give her that night. It was very mushy ("I'll always be here... blah blah blah"). He broke it off with her by phone the next day. He told me several weeks ago that he wasn't even really attracted to her, but he was trying to fill that need of longing with her. I asked how he could have said stuff that he did? He said it was all part of it.
I guess I truly believe this - back in the 90's early 2000 I was HEAVILY involved in chat and know that I could daily give my devotion and love and forever to someone knew that I "clicked" with on that day, however, could drop them the next - so I KNOW this is possible (thank GOD I moved out of that phase).
I think what it is that they don't get - is that it's hard for us to just "accept" that it was what it was and they've moved along and are hoping for better.
We have our MC on Thursday - should I bring any of this up or just let sleeping dogs lie and hope it fades with time?
