Morning, You've got to feed wood to a fire to get it going. Find out what that fuel is. Same in my sitch, I'm at a loss as what to throw on the embers. Gasolione will pput out the last spark as will a large log. I write alot in metaphores because it my way of relateing women's ideas to men's. Iknow their is an ember in my W. When you nurse the ember it will turn to flame.
I sent a "thinking of you" card to her. Pressed a small flower in it and wrote "I wanted to give you a smile today."
Next I put a postit inside her medicaine cabnet when I picked up the kids and wrote " Good Morning sunshine! Just a little note from me. Hope you have a great day!"
Find a way to release you anger NOW! Every time you let her see it in you and effecting you, your pissing on that fire. Even when you think that you have done everything and are frustrated, you must push yourself to go alittle further and find new things the feed the fire with. Those damn heart flames are fickled and allways change what they want to feed on. I see now that those roses I sent W pissed out that fire. (Remember, she filed the next day) So smile at her, look longingly at her make her a cup of coffee or tea even though she didn't ask you for one. Get up early and get her a mocca or breakfast before she wakes. Also, remeber a smoldering fire with care will BURST into flame. I hope the same will happen from your efforts.
BTW I saw a book at Barns and Noble, "1001 Romantic ideas", I wanted to get it because I'm a caveman when it comes to love ideas", It has lots of stupid silly "love kindling" ideas in it. I think that you just need the right combonation of fuels to go get her Passion lite!
Remember, I'm just a confused newbie and I would bounce this some of the vets here for a second opinion.
