As much as there are some things I don't particularly want to know, sometimes when I find out it makes me feel better.
My H and I have always had a really good friendship, more than anything, so I am convinced that is the main thing that is pulling us through this whole mess. He said the sex with OW was more of a "release" than anything and he could never see himself spending any length of time with her because she didn't have the depth that I do, nor the maturity to understand life. That in itself made me feel better about myself
Then of course, I am at a vulnerable point, and I know I said something that I shouldn't have, but it just came out. I said "how can I compete with her, she has this perfect body and I'm fat". H put his arms around me and said "there is no competition, I'm here with you and you aren't fat, maybe you could lose a few pounds, but so could I. There's just more of you to cuddle so don't think of yourself like that". Instant ego boost - I sure do love that man, regardless of what he has put me through and I know we are going to get through this and come out on the other side even stronger than we were before
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
