The OW knows how to distract my H w/ inviting him to take our girls to alone of her childs freind Bday party or for easter she told my H to bring them over for an egg hunt or they will take all the kids to the park. I told him tha he has NEVER taken the kids to the park on his own or not even w/ ME!! Nor has ever gone to any bday parites w/ US!!! I said (sarcastically) I never knew you liked kids Bday parites so much!!!!
UGH!!!! You see other day of the altercation, the kids were not around. I really have stopped discussing or arguing w/ him infront of the kids. My biggest 180 is when he is looking for a fight , I just let it slip right off my back and won't react whatsoever. It has really helped the tension is not there like before and I know thats probably why he started staying at home more often.
The last couple of times he takes the girls is b/c she will tell him bring the girls they will have lots of fun...she knows how to wheel him in using the girls!!!
