I have known about OW for 8 months and I finaly took a stand in that I told him that I have given him 8 months for him to figure things out and if OW is what he wants to let go of me forever(he no longer talks about D and now just says he will not leave his own house). I have started detachment ,he can't sleep in our bed anymore and I will no longer have sex w/ him. I did not have a death wish formyself. I need to get tested for stds. WE all should really protect ourselfs since they think OW is so great they surely don't think they can catch anything. I told him OW is single and is probably not only sleeping w/ him alone. I need to keep on living for my daughters. I asked months ago to take away my sexual desires for him ( even it it's just temporary) until HIS plans for us are finished. I told him he was getting too fat off all the cake eating. Almost everyday last week I kept pushing for him to move out. I said I am sure OW wants you 24/7. H said yeah ,but I don't want that. I said does SHE know that? Ha.
