First, my wife has gone off the deep end sexually, engaging in frequent phone sex with this guy she has not seen since 4th grade and exchanging dozens of x-rated text messages with him over the past several months. This from a woman who would not talk dirty to me in bed once in 22 years. What the heck is happening.
Now she is considering sending VIDEO of herself masturbating, etc. She has really gone nuts.
This guy is a stranger to her. He could be a stalker, a pedophile, a con man or a rapist. She can risk her own life with him, but she is showing such bad judgment that it makes me fear for my kids' if he is ever around them. Should I do a criminal background check or hire a PI. He lives out of state.
Second issue is about a conversation I had with my MIL. She was sorry about the sitch but said it was because I did not understand how women feel. My MIL divorced also and her reasons were nearly identical to those my W gives: I made her feel worthless, I destroyed her self esteem, I did not validate her feelings, etc. My MIL based this on 2 (yes 2) negative comments I made to her in 22 years! Should I take this criticism to heart or should I just conclude that my W and my MIL are birds of a feather? My mother in law has been alone the entire 40+ years since her divorce.
-SH
Last edited by Struggling_Husba; 04/17/0701:23 PM.
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