I'd like to hear some input also. I'm in the same sitch. H & I are doing very well. However, he's leaving in 2 wks for a year deployment, and I am still left w/ insecurity, fear that he will cheat again while he's over there, etc. I'm also stuck not wanting to talk to him about these things b/c I don't want to rock the boat w/ him leaving so soon and us doing so well.
He acts "as if" the D bomb and the following events never happened. I think he still talks to OW (EA) b/c she's a "friend" and they work together and I'm afraid that the EA may heat up again once he's gone and maybe talking to her on a regular basis from overseas.
Not to hijack your thread, but I guess we all end up going through the same emotions, feelings, etc. as we "move on."
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
