Also, there is a rule in art that often holds true in terms of sexual attraction. Sometimes you can make a physical feature that is out of proportion or conventionally unattractive more attractive or "beautiful" by emphasizing it rather than attempting to minimize it. For instance, a woman who has relatively a lot of "junk in her trunk" might be tempted to wear plain slimming black pants but she might actually look more sexy if she wore tight white jeans with rhinestone detail on the back pockets. Sexual attraction is an odd mechanism.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
