Anyone up for some drama???? You guys can hit me w/ a 2x4 if you think I did wrong here it goes- My h crossed the line a few weekends ago when he took the girls for a sleep over at OW's. I told him that now we would have to start to schedule time ahead to be w/ the girls. So, since he had them w/ OW the last two weekends, they will be all mine the next two weekends. I bought tickets for the girls and I to see Disney on Ice for the night before H was going to take them, but H as usual did not inform me that he had tickets too. When I told him I would be taking them he became frusturated and I told him he should take his"other" family instead. A few hours before H was to take the girls he called me several times and left messages that he would be bringing them right back after the show(same lies said before). I finally called him back and asked him why should I beleive him NOW that he would really bring them back. Anyways we wenet back and forth and I told him the girls were now at a sleep over w/ 7 other girls and to not taked them away from their fun time right now. H threaten to go get them form there. I had to tell the lady of where they were staying all about my drama just in case H did drop by. H said that since I wa playing games w/ him regarding the girls that I will no longer live comfortable and have a free ride that when I arrived home later that day the electricity and the water would be turned off and I will have to turn it back on in my name. I knew it was Saturday and it was too late to get it all turned off. When I got home the lights and the a water was off. I just went to the box and turned it back on and found the water valve outside and turned the water back on too! Later that day H came home and was surprised that I had knew where the water valve was at and I said you don't give me any credit? He said he did not go to the show at all and how his tickets were wasted. Boo hoo.... things would of been fine, but I just couldn't stand another weekend w/ out my girls. Now that I am detaching.. he is asking all the questions, what am I doing, who with and even asked the girls what I did when they had their sleep over. WHen i mentioned that i was in no need of any sex H patted me on the back and said that's b/c you are already "getting it"(h thinks I am cheating now). I said no, I asked the Lord months ago to take away any sexual desires I have towards you (especially since I was the one w/ the high sex drive). H said "sure right) ANYWHO.......... I hope my next weekend is more pleasant.
He did do something weird this morning though??? H had told me he was staying out " overnight" tonight and would not be back until Wednesday, I said oh Tuesdays must be wehn she is childess, huh? Oh yes right.. So, as he was leaving he leaned over and gave me a kiss on my head??? GUILT??? I can't remember when he has done that last.Last week h started to take my suggestion(i guess) to leave the house (but not totally) it was the first time during the weekday that he slept over out of the home. But I am starting to get use to it (it hurts less and less) THis morning he had an exctra pair of worlking pants i hands as he said " yes I am staying over" I just told him (nicely) why not take clothes for the rest of the week? No I will back tomorrow....UGH! I said it really is ok w/ me..I sleep fine when your not here. I was noticing that when he does sleep (in the other room) at home that I do not sleep good, but when he is not at home ,I do fine.
