So we seem to be moving along pretty well. We've had our ups and our freakin' downs...but s-l-o-w-l-y it's moving along...
However, I now find myself stuck on the details. I found out 2/8 that he was having an affair (mostly EA - PA one time, but was about the emotional "need") and he told her the next day they were done.
I guess now I need to understand why in the first place - put a "name" on the need he was looking to fill. He's mentioned that that what he was looking for he didn't even get, so why did the affair continue? Does he feel that I ever filled that need but somehow got caught up and lost my way?
Is this something I should bring up in MC or just let it go?
I HATE that they can so easily move on (and I honestly believe that some can just drop the A and move on) and we're stuck living with the details/images in our minds and thoughts EVERY day. I also know that we tend to make it more than it actually was.
