Making the leap - Hopefully wount Jinx it!

[limbo]

So things seem to be going ok, its my bday tomorrow, and I told him that I wanted 2 things, one is a happy marriage, and the other was for him to go back to his c, he was suffering from a major depression, he is alot better now, however I don't feel he dealt with the issues properly, he only went to about 4 sessions and then stopped.
He lets it slip from time to time about different things, that make it obvious he still has issues that need to be dealt with, I think that they were getting to the hard stuff in therapy and that's why he stopped.
He hasn't said much about the therapy thing, and I have pushed it anymore, so we will see what happens. Although the plus side he didn't get mad or anything and took it well.
We are having a h*ll of a time with our 14yr old D! she is really testing the limits, especially mine, to be honest I have been worried that she is angry at for how I have handle things, maybe she thinks I should have kicked h out, maybe she thinks less of me because I kept him! It worries me that she may have problems later in life with her relationships because of this.
At one point she said she hated me and her dad and that he could go off and have as many affairs as he wants!
So I am at my wits end! life just doesn't seem to want to settle into any kind of calm!