good idea, faith.

funny, you were posting this while I was saying something similar on my own thread.

I'll start the venting.

I hate the idea that OW is ingratiating herself with S14.
I hate the idea that I will have to deal with OW because of S14.
I hate the idea that she is little more than a prostitute--paid to see that the way is smoothed for H and that his career needs are met, with no reciprocal requirement that he consider her career needs as independent from his own.
I think her morals are awful--she jumped right in knowing full well we have a son, and having no reason to believe that I wanted out of our M.
I think she is awful and questionably stable, no children, very shaky first M, no friends.
I think she is using H, and he is using her.
Bleh. I wish she'd go back to Iowa.