I am sorry I haven't been around for a few days. Took me a while to catch up here!
Quoting jethro: she's already told me I've taken this real well and have been a "saint"
Wow! Remind yourself of the things she has said like this. She may not validate your struggles as often as you like, but when she does, she really does!
Quoting jethro: I think my 4.5 year old D is sensing something from me. ... Is this an intuitive little girl or what?!?!
God bless her! You know I have had similar experiences with my 6 y.o. son - he continues to astound me!
I am glad you are getting so much wonderful support here. Take good care, my friend!