Hi OF,

I've been following your last few posts. Feel like I am ready to give up fighting for my M and file for D, although that is not what I want. I do still love my H and I do want him to be happy, so think it's time for me to let him go. Don't think I've successfully detached, but just can't take any more of this. No real comments or advice here. Your thread title just seemed to reflect where I am too.


M: 33
MLC/WAH: 33
M 6 yrs, together 12
2 kids: 5,2
Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S
Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S
Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D