The fat lady is warming up....

[stilldazed]

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Did you reach a point, or moment in time when you realized you were objective about the situation? Im curious if this came as a singular point of clarity, or has been a process of ebbing and flowing to get to a final place.

Additionally, have you vacillated at all since reaching that point? Im really interested in the process. And the idea, or ideal that one can detach enough to be objective. True objectivity is such a hard thing for me to imagine since there is so much emotion involved with all the memories.

Perhaps thats what true detachment is. I support whatever course you decide is best for you. That is why we are all here, to heal or reconcile, not to stay in limbo for eternity hoping that pause in the downward spiral will turn.

We each have our own timeframe, your minimum of one month for each year seemed quite reasonable. As I approach that same timeframe I am beginning to see a future, but dont feel I have detached to the level you have.