Jethro - I feel your frustration because it's very similar to the frustration that I go through with my W. Makes you want to become a brain surgeon or a double-naught spy, doesn't it?
Sorry - couldn't help the Beverly Hillbillies dig. Well, actually - I could have since I live here in NC...
I want my W to read as well - get a sense of where we are coming from these days. At this point in our respective R's, opening up "The Playbook" (DB and DR - soon to include TSSM {The Sex-Starved Marriage}) may be a part of finding something that works. But come here to vent - we'll listen. W said that I always was a good listener...
